Dear Flirty Stalker One,
Swami have big stalker once, but not sure it means same thing here as in homeland.
For you Swami says use patience. Etsy has secret plans to become a dating service so is trying to attract more male members under the guise of handmade, vintage and supplies mixed with social networking. With patience Swami says soon you may be able to find a male shop owner to exchange private convos with and more. Swami sees this will work very well for you and Etsy. Watch out Plenty of Fish!
Pleased the Swami is to assist you.